Debbie Downers

I’m on a blog roll!

If you can’t tell.  I’m a fucking goof ball.  I’m pretty happy in general.  One contributing factor on how I got good was because I am self amused and I generally have a good time when I go out.  This kept me consistent over the long run.  But one thing I hate is people who are always negative around me or are always complaining or highlighting their problems.

I fucking hate that shit.  If you say two negative things in a row without a positive, a bell rings in my head and I just want to not ever talk to you anymore.  I will call you out on it and tell you to stop immediately.

I can see why people do it though.  By talking about their problems they feel like they can get sympathy and it almost lets them take the responsibility out of their hands because they broadcast it to the world.  But lets be real here, unless we are your parents or super long time friends, most people you interact with don’t give a shit.  Seriously!  Nobody give a shit.  We all go our own problems to deal with.  If you talk shit on my Channel and think I am going to give you legit advice, you’re funny.  I’m just going to troll you, forget about it, do something else and then go on my regular day.

Here is a better suggestion.  Instead of talking about your problems, always be complimenting on whatever skill your friends or acquaintances are good at.  If I see a buff guy at the gym, I give him props for being jacked.  If I see a guy with lots of money, I compliment him on his financial acumen.  If I see a player at the club better than me, I high five him and buy him a drink instead of the hot girl next to him lol.

There are two things you need to know.  People love to talk about whatever the fuck they are good at.  And people love compliments.  I love it when a random newb calls me out in the club and tells me I have great game and ask me a few questions.  I always give some advice.  It makes me feel great too.  Nothing makes you feel like king awesome by demoing in front of a buncha newbs, seriously!  If you show genuine interest, compliment, and are willing to listen, people love to tell you all sorts of stuff.  However, you still need to follow these guidelines.

• Don’t argue, just listen.  High value people are busy, they ain’t got time for arguing.
• If they give you something, don’t just keep sucking value and ask more and more.  Be happy with what you get, its fucking free.  Nobody is obligated to give you anything.
• Sound really excited.
• Be in a general happy vibe and always provide whatever value you can give.  Trade value!  If I want to learn how to make money, and I know a rich guy who wants to learn game… boom! Mutual exchange and sharing!  Win/Win.