Neediness, that shit is repulsive... even when girls do it.…
Thank God this guy didn’t take a bootcamp with me. A Vegas nightclub would have been a very target rich environment. My jeans are too tight and I have way too much camera gear in my pockets to run very fast.
I’ve had guys with 1000x more challenges than Elliot and still get laid. I have guys who were 5’2 get laid. I have had guys who spoke poor English get laid. I have had guys who lived with their parents get laid. Then you have this guy…. pretty face, rich, famous dad, and lives in a city with nothing but hot college girls next to one biggest party schools in the country. What a loser.
It is my honest belief that anybody can get laid in less than a year (most people a lot less) if you’re serious about it and you hang out with the right people and you have no serious mental or physical condition. If you approach enough girls, even if you were terrible with game, statistically speaking, its inevitable you will get laid. I would bet 1000$ that Elliot has not cold approached 1000 girls in his lifetime. A thousand approaches could have been accomplished in less than 6 months. If you had gotten laid every 6 months, over a 20 year period, that would have been 40 women. The average man has 7 partners his whole life and even at that rate, its a 600% increase.
I seriously believe that getting laid just makes you a lot more of a chill person. I used to be hater myself. My roommate was a good looking natural back in 2008 and I would always hear him bring back hot girls and fucking across the wall. I would always be pissed off and put on my headphones and go back to playing TF2.
Present day… if you get laid, I’m happy for you. Congrats! Just don’t get any stains in my condo or car. The problem with current YouTube videos is that people think pickup should be easy or a cake walk. They think that they can read a book can be picking up 10’s. Stop being so damn picky starting off. If you’re a 5, be happy finding a girl who is also an HB5! In the long term, work your way to becoming a 10 yourself, and try to get an HB10.
Don’t tie ego to the quality of the girl you get. Just get the lay for the sake of reference experience. Trust me, I have seen some PUA coaches bag some ugly ass chicks. Just look at the following picture. My gawd she has more craters on her face than IO, the moon of Jupiter. If you knew there were “MPUAs” still going after female Danny Trejo’s, don’t put so much pressure on yourself!
I also know plenty of amazingly good looking guy friends who have pulled hideous girls. I’m talking guys who look like Chris Hemsworth pulling Rosie O’Donnell look-alikes. Obviously as you get better in game, strive for higher quality. However, if you have gotten less than 5 lays from cold approach pickup, you really shouldn’t be so picky and opting out of freebies. The reference experience of actually pulling and escalating is very valuable for when you actually meet a girl in the future that you really like. By then, things should be automatic because you have done it before, you can actually enjoy the moment while managing logistics instead of micromanaging everything. For guys with inner game issues, getting laid in itself will do more in one night than months of meditation and affirmations.
Inb4 “squattincassanova promotes talking to ugly girls” in the comments section.