Neediness, that shit is repulsive… even when girls do it.
Always be coming from the frame of providing value and not taking value. If you ask a girl to hang out, its because you’re doing something really cool and amazing and she would enjoy being in your presence. Never ask a girl to spend time with you because you’re lonely at night. Even if you really are lonely, don’t show it! Fake it till you make it. Same is true if you’re a girl (for the 0.0001% of my audience lol)
Oh, and looks matter, groom yourself.
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