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If you’re pulling a girl and she lost her phone or her phone battery died or her friend has her phone and its seriously distracting her and affecting your ability to pull, one option is to quickly offer to get her friends number and assure her that she can contact her friends if she needs to get a hold of them. Then attempt to isolate her and go for the pull.
Reason & Background Story:
I don’t know what it is but almost on a nightly basis, I find girls losing their phone, dropping their phone, or getting it stolen. Its happened so many times where friends and students of mine were in set and the girl loses the phone and the set was going well but then it completely goes to shit. Maybe its because they are clumsy, maybe its because girls don’t wear pants with pockets, or maybe they are dancing too much with their purse flaps open making it easy targets for thieves.
If a girl loses her phone, its probably a big ordeal and the advice here may not always work. However, if her battery dies or her friend has her phone, this tactic works pretty well. Just 2 weeks ago, my student was with a girl who was down but her friend had her phone. She agreed to leave with us once she finds her friend who had the phone. However, after walking 5 minutes around the club, she could not find the specific friend who had her phone but she bumped into her other guy friends who were also there. Being worried that her buying temperature would drop after walking around looking for her phone so much, I suggested my student to number close the guy friend that she was there with. I convinced the girl that her phone was safe with her other friend and that if we needed to get a hold of them, we can communicate via the guy friend. Now obviously shes not likely going to ever use this number, but its one of those split second moments where as long as she feels “okay”, she will go with it. Needless to say, I drove them both back to my condo and he closed her on the bathroom floor. Thanks for not getting anything on my couch LOL!
Funny thing was, my student was escalating slowly and the girl literally said “Well… I got to get back to my friends soon so lets get this over with (aka sex)”. My student was like “Wow! cool”. She was a Filipino girl. My experience is that Filipino girls almost never have last minute resistance and they pretty much have sex on the first date. I can recall countless times where that’s happened as well as from other friends. Do any of you readers agree?