Not a specific how to post but just some thoughts…
Most people on this planet aren’t into self help. Hot girls aren’t exempt. As law of thermodynamics states, entropy increase inevitably turns things into poop unless you actively work on it. (Quoted word for word in my college textbook, srs).
I been going out for 3 years and many things can change over three years. When you encounter so many girls, you can’t keep in touch with all of them. Most of them are let go and occasionally you meet them again 1, 2, 3 years later. If you follow me at all, you know I believe in fitness and working out as much as I believe in learning game. Over the last three years, my physical appearance has changed minimally. My weight has fluctuated no more than 5 pounds and in general hover around 200.
The girls on there other hand… quite the opposite. I have met hot bombshell girls on year one (Vegas, San Diego, Halloween block parties) and then on year 2 and 3, I see them again and literally… wtf just happened? 30+ pound increase, significant increase in wrinkles and skin imperfections, and just overall lack of aesthetics.
For a lot of girls, their window of beauty burns hot and bright but extremely short. They take it for granted. They never worked for it. Once they hit 21, its free alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, late night food, free dinners from guys, free this and that, why would they need to actively work on anything? Lets flip the situation in reverse. If at a very young age, a hot cheerleader/Playboy Playmate/Victoria Secret model was delivered to your bedroom every night, would you really go through the trouble of reading thousands of pages of PUA books, get into endless newb discussions on PUA forums at 3am in the morning, and then get rejected at the clubs over and over every weekend? NO you wouldn’t!
So what am I getting at? Am I just writing a post to flame/bash hot girls? Nope. I want to plant a frame / mindset you should have when you approach that really hot girl. Although she may be sitting at the top of the throne in the club and you’re fighting in the trenches, just remember that you are consistently improving and your attraction is consistently increasing while hers is steadily declining. Look at the big picture. 5 years is a very short time when you compare it to a person’s entire life span. The average life span in the US is approaching 80. What about your 30’s, 40’s, 50’s compared to hers? Think of all the hot girls back in high school who every wanted. Where the fuck are they now? The next time you get rejected, put a smirk in your face as you’re walking away… for a hot girl’s life is far harder than yours. Happiness is when you have a goal and your results meets your expectations. As you’re setting bigger goals and getting hotter and hotter girls, she will be fighting to maintain that beauty that is quickly fading away.
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