One of the reasons I got good was because I was forced to plow early on. I had a strict rule of plowing every set to death until the girl either left or told me explicitly to leave. What I had learned from that is to be able to withstand pressure and to be able to generate content even when I am out of state. Its basically good practice habits early on in the game.
The reality is.... sets that tend to start well.... tends to end well. I'm talking on average. Sure bad sets can be occasionally turned around, but if I look back at MOST of my lays, they have all opened very WELL.
For a newbie, I would definitely advocate plowing. Its a must...
Persistence is Key! Here’s an Example…
I met this girl in San Diego. It was her birthday. The vibe was warm but not great… I isolated her but she then kept trying to look for her friend. I got her number by saying “give me your number so I can text you in case you get lost”. She told me to give her mine and I declined and instead I took her phone, put my number in and called myself.
One of the cool tricks I do is to call the girl on the spot and have a role play conversation. In this case, I called her and pretended I was actually calling my mom and how I met a Bolivian girl who wants to invite me over for dinner and cook for me.
Anyways, she eventually finds her friend, they were two high energy Black chicks. I was like oh hell no, this is my first set of the night, there was no way I can match her friends energy level. Plus her friends are going to be all over her trying to get her drunk. I didn’t think I could pull so I just ejected since I got her number anyways. As I was leaving, I said “We’ll hang out later” and she was like “Maybe, I dunno, we’ll see”. Pfffff.
Anyways, the text was super boring. She told me she wanted to be a dietitian back in the club so I talked about amino acids during the set. My first text was a call back text to bring her back to memory with me. During the set I made fun of her for wanting to be a dietitian but not knowing what the amino acids were. Below includes the text.. and after 3 days of almost no spark, I somehow managed to get her to go to a comedy show with me on a Wednesday night. Some times I get free tickets and I will just text a whole bunch of girls and see who bites. I guess she didn’t have anything to do that day so it was on! The day 2 turned out pretty well and she is hinting to hang out again.
(Ill update the text later)
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