The first and last gf I ever had. It was long distance LTR of 7 freaking years. Ex cheer leader, chemical engineer, UC Berkeley grad, white girl personality, she had it all. Unfortunately like any long distance relationship, things are bound to happen. Like everyone else, my perception of relationships was the result of social programming and the reality is... its not a Disney movie. Half way into the relationship, I found "The Game" but since we were still together, I never really got out of the keyboard jockey phase. I had massive AA up until we finally broke up. It was a good ride, overall she was a good girl. I don't think out of the 3500 girls I talk to within the last 2 years, there were many like her. It was a learning experience. I'm glad I found the game though...

One of the reasons I got good was because I was forced to plow early on. I had a strict rule of plowing every set to death until the girl either left or told me explicitly to leave. What I had learned from that is to be able to withstand pressure and to be able to generate content even when I am out of state. Its basically good practice habits early on in the game. The reality is.... sets that tend to start well.... tends to end well. I'm talking on average. Sure bad sets can be occasionally turned around, but if I look back at MOST of my lays, they have all opened very WELL. For a newbie, I would definitely advocate plowing. Its a must...